Are you a grown woman chasing a man like he’s the last slice of cake on Earth? Girl, put down the running shoes.
Let’s be real—by the time you’re over 40, you’ve paid your dues, survived your share of bad dates, and likely learned how to assemble IKEA furniture solo. You are not here to audition for anyone's approval, especially not for a man who can’t recognize your value without you waving neon signs and performing emotional cartwheels.
So here’s the truth bomb:
High-value women don’t chase men. They attract.
Because when you know your worth, the game changes. You stop begging for crumbs and start serving five-course meals—figuratively and sometimes literally (if you’ve mastered sourdough during lockdown).
Why the Chase Is Overrated
Chasing a man isn't romantic—it's exhausting. It flips the natural dynamic, often leaving you in a state of anxiety, wondering if he likes you enough. Sis, we’re too fabulous (and too moisturized) for that nonsense.
Men who are emotionally available and genuinely interested in a relationship will pursue you. They’ll show up. Consistently. Without you needing to decode texts like a CIA agent.
The Empowered Shift: Be the Prize, Not the Pursuer
When you’re a high-value woman, you know that you bring depth, experience, independence, and emotional intelligence to the table. You’ve cultivated a fulfilling life—whether that means traveling solo to Italy, mastering your side hustle, or simply enjoying quiet Sundays with your fur baby and a glass of Pinot.
You don’t need a man—you want the right one. There’s power in that distinction. And that power? It’s magnetic.
Stop Seeking. Start Sifting.
Let him show his intentions with actions, not half-hearted emojis. Your time is precious. Your energy is sacred. The right man will make it obvious. The wrong one will make it confusing.
Choose clarity. Choose peace. Choose you.
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